don't take anything personally
Like Don Miguel Ruiz says, " Whatever happens around you, don’t take it personally… Nothing other people do is because of you. It is because of themselves. All people live in their own dream, in their own mind; they are in a completely different world from the one we live in. When we take something personally, we make the assumption that they know what is in our world, and we try to impose our world on their world." This is one of my favorite books of all time, The Four Agreements. If you haven't read it, get it! What you think about yourself will ALWAYS be more important than what others think since these people do not live your life or truly know your heart. There's a reason why there are celebrities and millionares who are insecure and unhappy. No matter how many people love you, if you don't love or approve of yourself then you will never be happy. When you take the time to work on yourself and finally accept the wonderful and unique being you are, you will finally find true happiness within!